Catalyst

Submissives want a Catalyst. Perhaps we need a Catalyst. I know I do.

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cat·a·lyst /ˈkætlɪst/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[kat-l-ist] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun
1. Chemistry. a substance that causes or accelerates a chemical reaction without itself being affected.
2. something that causes activity between two or more persons or forces without itself being affected.
3. a person or thing that precipitates an event or change: His imprisonment by the government served as the catalyst that helped transform social unrest into revolution.
4. a person whose talk, enthusiasm, or energy causes others to be more friendly, enthusiastic, or energetic.
[Origin: 1900–05; cataly(sis) + (-i)st]
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Yes, a catalyst, my catalyst, someone who precipitates change within me. To me this means the one who influences me, causes reactions and changes within me, and does not become less in the process. The one who is strong enough for both of us, and doesn't allow my faults to bring Him down. The one who is my pain and pleasure, and is able to take me where He wants me to go. My catalyst.

You'll be the vein

You'll be the pain

You'll be the scar

You'll be the road, rolling below

The wheels of a car

And all of your thoughts are gone

Don't know if I'm strong enough now

You'll be the vein

You'll be the pain

You'll be the

Catalyst
(Anna Nalick, Catalyst, Wreck of the Day)

The one who is my pain, my strength, my catalyst.
Thank you Master.